A sugar baby site that's free and verified

On GildedDate, sugar babies are called Muses. Joining is free, and every sugar daddy and sugar momma has to verify their ID and a live selfie before they can message you, so you know who you are talking to.

Why Muses choose GildedDate

• Free for Muses. Muses never pay to join or get verified, and verified Muses get Premium features free.
• Verified Mentors. Every sugar daddy and sugar momma has to verify a government ID and a live selfie before they can send you a message.
• Built against scams. Our message filters flag requests for money, gift cards and crypto, and pushes to move you to another app.
• Your profile stays private. Profiles never show up in Google, and only signed-in Mentors can see you.
• You set the terms. Your profile says what you are looking for, and you decide who to talk to and when to meet.

How it works for sugar babies

1. Create a free profile as a Muse and pick your city.
2. Verify your ID and selfie. Verified Muses get a badge, and Mentors trust verified profiles more.
3. Browse Mentors near you, or let them find you. Traveling? Post your trip and Mentors in that city can see you're visiting.
4. Chat on GildedDate until you feel ready, then meet somewhere public.

How to write a great sugar baby profile

• Use clear, recent photos that look like you today. Nothing explicit: it isn't allowed, and it isn't needed.
• Share what you are working toward, like school, a career or a business, and what you would love to learn.
• Be clear about what you want from a relationship, whether that is mentorship, travel or something long term.
• Keep personal details such as your address, workplace and last name out of your profile.

Red flags to watch for

• Anyone who asks you to pay first, for a "verification fee", a gift card, or to "prove you're real". That is always a scam.
• Anyone who offers to send you money in exchange for your bank login or card details.
• Pressure to move to another app right away, or to meet somewhere private.

If something feels wrong, use Report on their profile and our team will look at it. More tips are in our sugar dating safety guide.

What isn't allowed

GildedDate is a dating site. Escorting, solicitation and anything paid "per meet" is banned, and you never owe anyone your time. Read the full Terms.