A sugar daddy site where everyone is verified

On GildedDate, sugar daddies and sugar mommas are called Mentors. You meet ambitious, ID-verified sugar babies who want mentorship, travel and real company, without the fake profiles and scams that fill other sites.

Why Mentors choose GildedDate

• Verified sugar babies. Members have to confirm their age and identity with a government ID and a live selfie before they can message anyone. Look for the verified badge.
• No fake profiles. We don't create or pay for profiles to make the site look busier. Everyone you see signed up to be here.
• Only the people you want to meet. Mentors see Muses, and Muses see Mentors. Nobody else.
• Discreet by design. Member profiles never appear in Google, and only signed-in members can see them.
• Clear expectations. Profiles say what each person is looking for, so the first conversation is an honest one.

How it works for sugar daddies and sugar mommas

1. Create a free profile as a Mentor and pick your city.
2. Verify your ID and selfie. It takes a few minutes, it's required before you can message, and it shows the verified badge on your profile.
3. Browse sugar babies near you, save favorites and start conversations.
4. Upgrade to Premium ($89.99 a month, cancel anytime) for unlimited messaging, Travel mode (browse any city and post your trips) and to see who viewed you. See all plans.

Tips for a profile that gets replies

• Use recent, clear photos. Verified members with good photos get far more replies.
• Say what you do and what you enjoy: the restaurants you like, where you travel, what you can teach.
• Be specific and honest about the kind of relationship you want.
• Write first messages that show you read their profile. Respect goes a long way.

What isn't allowed

GildedDate is for dating, not for buying company. Escorting, solicitation and anything paid "per meet" is banned, and so is pressuring anyone. Members who break the rules are removed. Read the full Terms.

Sugar mommas welcome

Mentors can be any gender. Sugar mommas get the same verified members, the same privacy and the same tools.